Finding myself

Wow. It’s been a while since I’ve posted on here! Honestly, I’ve been doing a ton of self reflection and discovered a lot about myself over the past few months.

For so long I was worried about what others thought. I wouldn’t post certain things on social media because I was nervous someone out there would judge me. What I found out? People might judge me, but there are so many great people out there waiting to cheer me on! I’ve also realized that a ton of the negativity that I thought would come was mostly coming from me. “I shouldn’t post a selfie. I’m a mom now.” “Is my outfit in this pic cute enough to post?” “My son isn’t smiling, maybe I shouldn’t post it.” ALL. NEGATIVE. THOUGHTS. It’s no surprise that I’m my worst critic, but dang. How hard on myself can I be?

So I did a thing. I changed my outlook and the way I spoke to myself. Not only about the way I look but what I can do in this world. There is no more, “I can’t have a blog, I’m not that interesting.” Now it’s, “I want to have a blog to express myself and what I like to do.” My God doesn’t make mistakes, and He made me. I’ve realized that I was constantly slapping Him in the face every time I spoke negative about myself and my life. When you don’t constantly speak negatively about yourself something amazing happens. You start to love yourself. You start to have this new found confidence in yourself. You start to become happier which in return makes you want to spread that happiness to others. It’s a gift that keeps on giving.

With that being said, I love having my own little corner of the internet. I have met so many amazing people through it and I’m excited to keep cheering them on! So I’m going to keep doing me and sharing what I love. On my blog, Instagram, Facebook and LIFE. I’m just going to do me and share what brings me JOY!

So much love,

Pey 💕

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